At The Marriage Advocates, our mandate is to serve the immigrant community in Canada by providing essential relationship skills training, mentorship, coaching, and community engagement. Our mission is to empower individuals and families to cultivate healthy relationships, which in turn contribute to the overall well-being of our community. Our programs have been shown to enhance participants emotional and social wellbeing.
We believe that healthy families are the bedrock of a thriving community. Our programs are designed as preventive strategies to combat family disruption and domestic violence, leading to improved mental health for all. By equipping families with the tools they need to succeed, we aim to create a ripple effect of positivity and stability throughout the community.
At TheMarriageAdvocates Canada, we use the arts to inspire social change by shedding light on cultural nuances that, if not properly addressed, can lead to family disruption and domestic violence. By fostering new perspectives, we help immigrant families build lives that align with Canadian values. Additionally, we use the arts to educate the broader community about the cultural influences shaping immigrant family dynamics, raising awareness for cultural sensitivity.
As Ted Cunningham wisely said, "Every marriage is a duet in need of great backup singers." At TheMarriageAdvocates Canada, we strive to be those great backup singers, providing the support and guidance needed for every marriage to flourish.
Join us in supporting healthier individuals, happier families and a stronger community.
Here is why we started TheMarriageAdvocates Canada
Meet Mr. Ife and Dr. Dami (PhD) Adingupu, the dynamic duo behind The Marriage Advocates. As certified pre-marital and marriage coaches, certified marriage mentors, and certified SYMBIS (Save Your Marriage Before It Starts) facilitators, we bring a wealth of experience and passion to our mission. Together for over 21 years and married for over 13 years. Our journey has been one of growth, learning, and unwavering commitment to each other.
Our mission is clear: to support couples in acquiring the skills necessary for a thriving marriage and to provide a robust support network. We firmly believe that a healthy marriage, and by extension a healthy family, forms the foundation of a thriving society.
We share our insights and experiences through the content we create on our online platforms, offering valuable lessons learned along the way. Our aim is to encourage and motivate couples, demonstrating that despite individual brokenness, with the right training and counsel, beautiful and healthy marriages are achievable.
Life keeps us busy, especially with our three wonderful children who bring joy and entertainment to our lives. When we're not creating content, working in ministry, or managing our 9 to 5 jobs, we cherish our downtime together. Whether it's talking, doing silly dances, singing, or simply enjoying each other's company, these moments strengthen our bond.
Based in Alberta, Canada, we are committed to making a positive impact on marriages locally, nationally, and internationally. Our passion is to help couples see the potential for beauty and health in their marriages, despite life's challenges. Join us on this journey as we strive to build stronger families and a thriving society.
What People Are Saying
What People Are Saying
"I want to express my appreciation to TMA for the positive impact their sessions have had on my marriage. I have been married for 8 years, and I had reached a point where I was not fully enjoying the purpose of marriage.
Firstly, everything discussed is highly confidential because it is strictly between you and your spouse. There is no third-party intervention unless requested. Additionally, the topics covered provide a neutral ground for partners to engage and discuss even the smallest details that couples often overlook.
TMA allows you to see that you are not alone and that there are others in similar situations. If permitted by couples, TMA provides an opportunity to share information on how to help or benefit from those who have been in similar situations.
The TMA manual used during the session is REMARKABLE. It is very detailed, well-articulated, and a helpful resource. Couples can even refer to the manual at later times to see where they stand in their journey.
Lastly, I would like to mention that TMA is worth trying because, even if one of the spouses isn't initially interested, I assure you that after the first class, that spouse will be engaged in the session. It is well-designed and well-planned. They even provide childcare during the sessions, so the couple can focus on each other.
If you believe marriage is meant to be enjoyed, then I encourage you to try TMA."
Seyi & Tolu : Spring 2024 participants
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When I first started this program with the Marriage Advocates, I really had very little hope for my relationship with my wife Marcia.
Then we went to our first meeting and a heaviness was lifted off my chest, almost like I can breathe again. After endless fights and arguing I can finally see some hope. As we went to the meetings with Ife and Dami they guided us through some hard times and the program helped us see where we had lost touch and where we needed to improve.
Now I can confidently say that I have hope and reasoning to continue with my marriage! Thank you to all TheMarriageAdvocates people for taking the time to help save my marriage!
I will be coming back to refresh and make sure we stay on the right Path.
I would also recommend this program to any new or older married couple; it definitely helped me in my marriage
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The Thriving Relationship workshop has helped me a great deal to understand my spouse in a way I never knew was possible. In turn he is starting to understand me too. I truly believe this workshop or something similar to this should be offered or mandatory for couples before they get married so they don't go through all these trials and tribulations, which could potentially lead to a divorce. You learn so much about each other and about yourself. It is also a great self-reflection program.
I would definitely recommend this program to all couples."
Dre & Marcia : Fall 2023 participants
"My partner and I attended the sessions over winter 2024 term. As we were diving into serious talks and thoughts about our long-term future, going through each chapter and activity with The Marriage Advocates was a defining part of our commitment to each other. Each activity is extremely appropriate and relevant, and my partner and I put on the table topics we had not discussed before, opening a window to understanding how we could build a strong foundation for our future. Thanks for the kind, relaxing, and non-judgemental atmosphere created by Mr. Ife and Dr. Dami."
Winnie & Peter : Winter 2024 participants
"The following is our thanksgiving words:
My wife and I so appreciate Ife and Dami accepting us to participate in their phenomenal couples' Thriving Relationships classes! We have mastered lots of knowledge and skills on how to love your life partner, how to deliver my love messages and signals to let her feel my love for her, and how to maintain our marriage and loving relationship in a healthy, sustainable, and evolving way. These not only help my wife and I enjoy our relationship of love, but also improve our relationship with kids and dramatically boost the whole family’s quality of loving each other and quality of life to establish a happy, caring, sharing, and wonderful journey of loving and beloved lives.
We would like to say a big thank you to TMA Canada. Hope they can get more funding so that more couples and families can benefit."
Steven & Jing : Fall 2023 Participants
"TheMarriageAdvocates Canada program which my hubby and I attended last year October was one of the best marriage investments we have done. We were married for almost 10 years and like most married couples living every day just as it comes, we never thought couples should really "talk".
I remember my husband and I had agreed to only come for just once but after we attended the first session on Resolving Conflict, we were hooked and came till the very end. We opened up very deep issues we kinda sidelined on the way, which had caused serious conflict and was hurting us both and that opened us up even more to deeper conversion which had led to better understanding and love for each other. We still have the book from last year and we still go back to it from time to time.
It's a program for every married couple who intends to stay true to each other, its not a one-time thing, it’s continuous. Thank you Ife and Dami for letting us be part of this program, thank you for teaching us. Marriage be it 1 year, 5 years, 20 years, you can never stop learning and we are grateful."
Chinwe & Collins : Fall 2022 Participants
Discover What We Do at The MarriageAdvocates Canada
Welcome to The MarriageAdvocates Canada, where our mission is to empower couples and families with the skills and support they need to thrive. Our approach is holistic, research-informed, and deeply rooted in community values. Here’s a glimpse into the diverse and enriching programs we offer:
Marriage and Relationship Workshops: Our workshops are designed using
research-informed resources to provide you with the latest and most effective strategies for building and maintaining a healthy relationship. Whether you’re preparing for marriage or looking to strengthen your existing bond, our workshops offer invaluable insights and practical tools.
Marriage and Relationship Mentorship: We believe in the power of mentorship. Our
certified mentors provide personalized guidance, sharing their own experiences and lessons learned to help you navigate the complexities of married life. Through our mentorship program, you’ll gain the support and wisdom needed to foster a fulfilling relationship.
Marriage and Relationship Coaching: Our certified coaches are here to help you achieve
your relationship goals. With tailored coaching sessions, we work with you to address
specific challenges, enhance communication, and deepen your connection. Our coaching
approach is supportive, compassionate, and results-driven.
Peer-to-Peer Support: Sometimes, the best support comes from those who are walking a similar path. Our peer-to-peer support groups offer a safe and welcoming space to share experiences, gain new perspectives, and build a supportive community. You’re not alone on this journey, and together, we can grow stronger.
Expressive Arts: Creativity can be a powerful tool for healing and connection. Our expressive arts programs incorporate activities like art, music, and dance to help couples
express themselves, explore their emotions, and strengthen their bond in a fun and engaging way.
Community Connection: Building a strong marriage often involves being part of a supportive community. We foster connections among couples through various initiatives that encourage interaction, friendship, and mutual support. Together, we create a network of families committed to thriving relationships.
Community Engagement Events: Join us at our community engagement events, where we bring couples and families together to learn, share, and grow. These events are designed to be informative, inspiring, and enjoyable, offering opportunities to connect with others and gain new insights into relationship building.
Community Conversations: Open dialogue is essential for understanding and growth. Our community conversations provide a platform for discussing important topics related to marriage and relationships. These conversations are facilitated by experts and aim to foster a deeper understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives.
Referral to Culturally Responsive Counselors: We recognize that cultural context matters in relationship dynamics. That’s why we offer referrals to culturally responsive counselors who understand and respect your unique background. These professionals provide tailored support that aligns with your cultural values and experiences.
At TheMarriageAdvocates Canada, we are committed to supporting you on your journey to a healthy and fulfilling marriage. Explore our programs and join our vibrant community as we work together to build stronger families and a thriving society.
Thriving Relationships Workshops
At TheMarriageAdvocates (TMA) Canada, we offer the Thriving Relationships Workshops, a research-based program designed to help couples build strong, healthy relationships, improve communication, manage conflicts, and more. Our approach is grounded in the latest research, ensuring you receive the most effective strategies to nurture your relationship. It's also perfect for couples who want to continue growing and learning together.
Research shows that with adequate training, mentorship, coaching, and/or counseling, domestic violence can be prevented and mental health can be significantly improved. This is exactly what our Thriving Relationships Workshops aim to achieve.
Our workshops provide couples with:
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Effective Communication Skills: Learn to express your thoughts and feelings clearly and listen to your partner with empathy and understanding.
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Conflict Management: Discover techniques to manage and resolve conflicts in a healthy and constructive manner.
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Relationship Building Tools: Gain practical tools and insights to strengthen your bond and enhance your connection.
In addition to these core areas, our workshops also offer:
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Marriage and Relationship Mentorship: Benefit from the guidance of experienced mentors who share their wisdom and support.
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Marriage and Relationship Coaching: Receive personalized coaching to help you achieve your relationship goals.
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Peer-to-Peer Support: Connect with other couples who are on the same journey, sharing experiences and building a supportive community.
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Expressive Arts: Engage in creative activities that foster emotional expression and connection.
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Community Engagement: Participate in events and conversations that promote a sense of belonging and shared learning.
Join our Thriving Relationships Workshops and take the first step toward a healthier, happier marriage. At TheMarriageAdvocates, we are committed to helping you build a strong foundation for your relationship, so you and your partner can thrive together. Whether you're looking to strengthen your bond or continue learning and growing as a couple, this program is designed for you.
This program is FREE to attend and is only available to 15 families per cohort.
Explore our programs and start your journey to a thriving relationship today.
Join the Waiting List for the Thriving Relationships Workshops
Ready to transform your relationship and build a healthier, happier marriage? Don’t miss out on this opportunity to be part of our Thriving Relationships Workshops. Join the waiting list today and be the first to know when our next workshop is available. Gain access to research-informed strategies, expert mentorship, personalized coaching, and a supportive community designed to help your relationship flourish.
Take the first step towards a thriving marriage – sign up now and secure your spot on the
waiting list. We look forward to supporting you on your journey to a stronger, more fulfilling
relationship.
Thriving Relationships Workshops Fall Session
Join our research-informed program designed to help couples build healthy relationships, learn to communicate effectively, and manage conflicts well. Over 8 sessions, each lasting three hours, you and your spouse will explore:
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Reconnecting
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Communication
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Managing Conflict
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Forgiveness
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The Impact of Extended Family/Third Parties
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Managing Money
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Sex is a Gift
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Loving Each Other Well
Enjoy a free dinner date experience while learning new ways to have a thriving relationship. You’ll engage in meaningful discussions and activities without having to share personal details with anyone but your spouse. Plus, we provide childcare to make it easier for you to attend.
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Dates: 8 consecutive Saturdays from Sept 28th to Nov 16th, 2024
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Time: 5 PM to 8 PM
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Location: Heritage Square, 8500 Macleod Trail SE
Don’t wait – spaces are limited! Ensure your place in the Thriving Relationships Workshops
and take the first step towards a healthier, happier marriage.
Register Now!
Sessions to Look Out For:
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Fall Session 2024: Sept 28, 2024 - Nov 16, 2024
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Winter Session 2025: Mid Jan 2025 - March 2025
Take action now and invest in the future of your relationship. Your journey to a thriving
marriage begins here!